End of 2010

Is coming to the end of 2010, I cant say I am looking forward to 2011, but I just need to move on with what I have now, my love ones, my job, my new hobby : Baking..
I still remember when I was young, ppl always ask what's yr new yr resolutions, at that point of time you just think about yrself. But is different now, I can say I dont have any new yr resolutions, I just want my love ones to be health, happy, and move on in life.. Is just that simple.. :) I wish all my friends, merry xmas and may god bless u in whatever you wish to accomplish.

Worries & Moody

Lost for words, guess I need to pray more. So many things in mind, I just pray things goes really smooth for me. Not that I think too much, or I can say I get easily affected? Or can I say, I can easily survive in whatever suitation I am. Looks like I dont have a choice, think I really need to pray more.

Back to blog

Havent been blogging for almost 3mths plus and most of the time update in FB. Guess all of us are either busy with work or family, recently something came into my mind and realise we got to set good examples to our next generation. So I made a "brave decision" in my 30yrs of life, that I can proudly say I AM NOT A SELFISH PERSON and am PROUD of my religion.
Since we are in the twenty centuries, we should not think in this manner as in parents should live with their sons only. Quoting an example, if I am not working, I will offer my parents to live with me so that I can take gd care of them. A big "SIGH". Whatever it is, God lead me to make this decision and I know he will guide me along, create wonderful things for me everyday. Though I am weak but I know I have faith in him and his power will flow in me to give me strength, wisdom, grace to handle all sorts of suitations. God I thank you, in jesus name, Amen.

Every child is individual

From a lady to a mother of 1 now, always believe that every child is individual and special. They have their own character, their own reaction, their own way of learning/coping with new things/environment. Being a parent have to be patient, cause you can never expect your kid to be like others and now I am learning to accept and grow with my kid slowly at his own pace. Not only to be patient, remind myself to mind my words as kids catch new words fast :) and they are smart enough to realise who are nice to to them .. Must be the milk powder keke lol :)

Swimming ? or Playing with water ?

Recently took Isaac to Jurong East swimming complex.. Intention was to let him get close contact with water in the pool, but water was too cold for him that day and he is only interested in playing with ... (I think that is a hole with water splashing out of the sides of the pool)
He enjoy himself, and will make an attempt to bring him twice a month to the pool.

Apart from going to swimming pool, I made a 'brave' act to bring Isaac to Mac by taking a bus. 'brave' act ? cause Isaac is a hyperactive boy which means two adults have to bring him out instead of one. That day, dar went muar, so if I need to burn Isaac's energy, I have to bring him out cause staying at home will not burn much .. lol.... :) Therefore I took him to Mac, gave him bits of hotcakes (he loves) :) and in the afternoon, I took him to jurong point again.. lol :) and he slept two hrs in the later noon.. I guess, is better to bring kids out to burn their energy and we parents can relax too ...

Dying for a holiday + ...... couples' bonding

Hmm.. Saw this jetstar contest on 8days recently, was thinking, ok we will think of the script and make a video. How to make the video interesting for the judges to pick us ????? Got an idea... Was on the train just now, and jot down some ideas... keke maybe will get Isaac into this video too.. ok will work onto it .. :)

Pamper ? Spoil ? Teach ? Punish ?

Everyone says terror two is a terrible age. Isaac is 17mths old now, I just find at times he is out of hand. Heard a friend of mine gave piece of advise, at this age, is useless to punish/beat them cause they are still young to understand what is NO/cannot.. Frm 2+ onwards, you can slowly teach them if they dont listen, beating/or using a cane might help.

Sigh, coaching a kid need skills but if you dont teach them the right way, they will never learn. Being a parent is nv easy, well, keep praying for God's guidance

Hyperactive Disorder

Saw Life Transformers 2, today Chris and YiFeng help this family of four(parents + two kids). This boy age of 5 this yr, have hyperactive disorder, he is kicked out of school due to this. Hyperactive disorder is ... http://www.singhealth.com.sg/PatientCare/ConditionsAndTreatments/Pages/AttentionDeficitHyperactivityDisorder(Child).aspx

Feel sad for his mum, she is a tough woman which I admire. I agree with chinese saying 世上只有妈妈好.
Although this child is down with this illness, but I know God is fair, he will be successful in life and his parents will be proud of him.

I hope God will bless this family :)