Disturb? Being watched?

How's everybody long weekend? I had a pretty nice one with my darlings.. We went resturant for a early mother's day celebration.
Every weekend when I bring my little darling back, I felt different. Is like I felt disturbed with the way people do things, people commenting me, ppl kept hinting, repeating, and had no confidence in me taking care of my little darling. Don't have to worry about me, I have confidence ... there are accidents which we cant avoid, and I have the confidence to avoid, but kids .. oh come on, can you 24 hrs standby with them? They will sure fell down, head bump onto something.. How I wonder I can ignore all this comments, and look ahead... And I really don't mind to slog.. I mean work and family.. I want to provide the best for them, and I want to do all this on my own. With my own way, my own style, my own freedom... Can I?