Teaching

To bring up a child is not just feeding, to me the those important is the coaching process. Nowadays kids pick up things fast, just one word from you, and the next day you will hear your kid saying the same word.. I heard stories from my husband's colleagues, and is quite funny... Eg : Grandma :" I am not your maria." and next day you will hear your kid calling you maria maria.. In short, setting a good example is important, but is difficult too cause human have flaws, and we can't be perfect all the times in front of our kids. Especially when we adults quarrel, we use "those kinds of words".
During our parents' centuries, coaching might not be so important. Not to make the mistake again, I will not fall into their footsteps. Esp they like to use words in front of kids which I don't think is appropriate. Like calling names to describe them. Eg : Ah yo.. you look like 老大and indeed you are one.. It can mislead kids and they will act like one. Eg : Only you can eat this, other family members will not get to have it . What kind and on earth is this kind of teaching, at the end of the day, kids are spoilt. But I admit human have flaws, even I can't be perfect too. So will try my best, and coach Isaac to be a better person, wrong teaching I will not entertain.